Families For Life | 7 signs you're ready to pop the big question
Tying the knot is a big leap in your relationship and an even bigger commitment. So, we understand why you could be teetering between popping the big question now and waiting for “the right time”. Truth is, there is no “right time”. However, there are signs you can look out for to know that you’re both ready to move to the next stage of your relationship. The first sign is that you’re reading this article. Congratulations! Here are seven other signs that signal it’s time to propose.
#1 You’ve talked about the future together
While there can be elements of secrets and surprises when it comes to the proposal, make sure your partner is in the loop about the engagement! You can’t be the only one who’s thought about it and wants to get married. When you’re both truly serious about each other, you should have had a conversation about marriage and committing to each other for life. If you’ve discussed the possibility of a future together and both seem excited by the idea, it’s a good sign that you’re ready to tie the knot!
#2 You both want kids - or not
Whether or not you want to start a family, it’s important to discuss this with your partner before taking the next step in your relationship. This ensures that neither of you feels like you had to make a big compromise alone, preventing any feelings of resentment. If you do want to have kids, you should agree on your parenting styles, childcare arrangements, education, and the family values you want to impart to your children.
#3 Money talk is not an issue
Being able to openly discuss your finances is crucial in a long-term relationship, especially if you’re in it for the long haul. It’s important to have this conversation openly, as it affects both your lives and futures together. You should have a good grasp of each other’s financial situations and be comfortable discussing your salaries, spending habits, and any outstanding debts. If money is an issue and it’s preventing you from moving forward in your relationship, there are steps you can take to achieve a more financially secure future.
#4 You’re okay with each other’s big dreams
If you’ve discussed your major goals and are both comfortable supporting each other's aspirations, then it's a good sign! For example, your partner may have always talked about settling down in another country, while you've always wanted to start your own business. If you’re both okay with these plans, then it’s time to start measuring those ring sizes!
#5 You’ve crossed big hurdles together
Being there for each other through thick and thin may sound trite, but there’s a reason why it’s been said in so many vows! Life will not always be a bed of roses, and marriage will have its own set of challenges. If you and your partner have dealt with difficulties and emerged stronger and more in love, then it proves that you’re able to communicate effectively and deal with challenges maturely and respectfully - another sign that wedding bells might be ringing.
#6 Your family and friends approve
This is one of the biggest green flags to look out for! The people closest to you can often spot the red flags better than you can. They constantly witness how you interact with each other and know you better than most. So if you're smiling more often or looking happier than before, they'll notice and recognise that this person is right for you.
#7 You can’t imagine life without them
No relationship is perfect, but the important thing is the both of you genuinely want to be better for each other. You’re willing to learn about your shortcomings and work on improving them. If this is the person you see yourself coming home to everyday and you find yourself subconsciously thinking about the future together - like starting a family and growing old with each other - then we believe you have found your person.
Did this convince you to get that ring? We hope your relationship continues to thrive and your love for each other deepens as you take the next step!