Families For Life | Being present at parent-teacher meetings

How is my child doing at school? 

Have they made any friends? 

Are they keeping up in class?

If you have these questions about your child, then their next parent-teacher meeting (PTM) is the perfect opportunity to learn more about their life at school!

While some parents might feel wary or anxious about having to meet their child’s educators, a productive PTM can be valuable, helping you uncover any difficulties your child might be facing or identify strengths you could have overlooked at home. Here’s what you can do to make the most of your next PTM:

1. Prepare before the meeting

Busy parents can choose to go in empty-handed, but a productive PTM will involve some pre-meeting planning. 

Start by talking to your child. Help them understand why the meeting is taking place and find out if they have any specific concerns to raise about their relationship with their classmates or schoolwork. If you have time, familiarise yourself with your child’s homework to get a better understanding of how they’ve been performing at school.

If you have any other concerns, prepare a list of questions to help you get clarity.

2. Have an open discussion

Your child spends most of their day at school under the guidance of their teachers. By observing how your child handles leadership roles or demonstrates collaborative skills, the teacher can identify and affirm your child’s strengths and weaknesses.

At the same time, you can offer your perspective on your child’s activities at home and raise any concerns. Speak openly and foster a collaborative spirit. After all, it takes a village to raise a child, and your teacher has your child’s best interests at heart too! 

With a better understanding of how your child behaves and grows, you can guide their development outside curriculum hours with additional private tutoring classes or other enrichment activities.

3. Clear any uncertainties

It can be difficult for busy parents to keep up with the constantly evolving education system. Take the time to ask questions during your next PTM to find out more about what’s available for your child and what you can do to help them realise their potential.

If you’re feeling confused about any classes or programmes, the meeting is a great time to clarify your doubts too!

With that, you’re now prepared for your next PTM! Just remember that it’s all about working together with your child’s teacher to bring out the best in your little one.