Families For Life | Giving your adult children peace of mind

As you get older and your children grow up, you may wonder how you can continue being a source of support rather than worry for your adult children. There are simple yet empowering steps you can take now to give them peace of mind and prepare yourself for the road ahead. By starting now, you can show your children that you’ve thoroughly thought about and planned for your future so they can feel assured today.

Take charge of your physical health

Keeping fit and being active is key to tackling problems that come with old age. Staying on top of regular check-ups, eating healthily, and remaining active through simple exercise can go a long way in preserving your independence.

But if the thought of exercise leaves you feeling lazier, you can keep yourself moving by being involved with your children’s family life. Volunteer to run errands outside the house, or offer to take the little ones to the playground. Join in on family outings or engage in hobbies like gardening if space allows it. Staying physically active lets your family know that you’re committed to being strong and present for family moments that matter.

Work towards financial independence

Being proactive about your finances is one of the clearest ways to ease your children’s worries. This means being prudent in getting your retirement savings, insurance, and debts in order. This way, your children won’t have to worry when unexpected situations happen.

Not only that, being clear and honest about your financial situation and plans to your children also keeps them informed and prepared. Taking charge and working towards a secure financial future will give you and your children certainty.

Secure your emotional and social network

Having a strong emotional and social support network outside your family reduces the chances of relying solely on your children for companionship.

There are many activities you can participate in, such as volunteering, community programmes, and taking classes to learn new skills, which allows you to meet new friends and connect with others like you. This enriches your own life and gives your children assurance, knowing that you are socially connected, emotionally resilient, and well-supported outside the family network.

Plan for legacy matters

Planning for end-of-life matters is an impactful way you can give your children clarity. Topics like who will make decisions for you when you are unable to and how your funeral will go may not be easy to think about, but they help you receive the care you want, ease your loved ones’ concerns, and help them carry out your wishes the way you want them with little conflict of interest.

There are various ways you can plan ahead. Creating a will ensures your wishes are clearly outlined, preventing confusion or disputes down the line. Setting up a Lasting Power of Attorney (LPA) for both medical and financial decisions means that, when the time comes, trusted individuals can act on your behalf according to your instructions.

Anyone can get started by visiting MyLegacySG for more information and to get started protecting what matters to you!

Peace for the family starts with you

Being able to take care of yourself and your own matters as you age is one way to express love, care and concern for your adult children. Every action you take now can reduce their worries tomorrow and strengthen the bonds you share. Start small, focus on what matters, and remember that giving your adult children peace of mind is also giving yourself a sense of confidence, independence, and serenity for the years ahead.