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What is positive internet behaviour and why is it important?

As digital citizens of a highly-connected world, we have the responsibility to teach your children to use the internet in a safe, smart and kind way. The internet is a double-edged sword that presents both opportunities and risks to all. When children use the internet positively, they act responsibly and ethically and inspire others to do the same. Collective positivity helps everyone enjoy the benefits of a digital world.

Everything that children do or say online has real-life impact on, not just themselves, but entire communities, leading to either positive or negative consequences on issues such as personal privacy and the spread of false information online. If we all choose to act sensibly, kindly and with respect for others, the internet will be a more pleasant place for community building, sharing of knowledge and global collaboration.

During this COVID-19 pandemic, everyone will face their own difficulties, be it at school or at home. Tempers are short, emotions are high, patience levels are low. With more children consuming content online during this period, having positive internet behaviour will go a long way to help prevent an already tense situation from boiling over.

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What are some ways children can use the internet positively?

  • Post positively: Children may often come across mean and nasty comments online. While it’s common to have a different opinion from someone else, there’s never a need to be disrespectful or insulting. Constructive discourse should take place in a civil and respectful way. Always remind your child that just like them, the person they are addressing online has feelings and emotions, even if they are separated by a screen. Sometimes, your child may feel compelled to “rant” online after negative experiences. Advise your child to take some time to collect themselves and don’t post immediately, where possible. Encourage them to try framing their posts constructively or posting more positive reviews to share useful recommendations with others, rather than only posting complaints expressing their frustrations.

  • Stand up to negativity: If your child witnesses someone being bullied or harassed online, encourage your child to stand up for them by reporting the offending posts to the hosting sites. The same goes for online content that is likely to be harmful to others — such as violent, dangerous or self-harming content, hate speech and false information. Most sites allow users to report posts if they’re inappropriate, fraudulent, or hateful. Simply by reporting negative content, we are helping to create a more positive Internet environment for all.

  • Teach your child to respect the privacy of others: How would your child feel if his or her personal details, such as name, address, email and phone number were published online for the world to see? Doxxing occurs when an individual or entity publishes the personal information of a person or people related to him/her, in order to harass, threaten or facilitate violence against them. This is a malicious practice that qualifies as an offence under Singapore’s Protection Against Harassment Act. Doxxing is never a justifiable course of action to take

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  • Exercise empathy: Encourage your child to think about how they would like to be treated by others. Teach your child to show graciousness and kindness to the people sharing the internet community with them — everyone can benefit from more positivity.

  • Don’t publicly shame others: Has your child ever uploaded a video of “bad behaviour” or reposted a mean comment to criticise someone? As social media allows for rapid sharing and commenting, it’s now easier than ever for users to track individuals online and “punish” them for what is perceived as an insensitive remark or bad behaviour. Without context or background, netizens can jump to conclusions, condemning the individual hastily. In many of these cases, the accused person receives death threats, abusive rants and may even have his/her private information exposed for the world to see. This can lead to humiliation and harassment for the person’s supposed wrongdoing. There have also been cases of mistaken identity and misunderstanding, where an innocent person is wrongfully shamed by users on the internet. If your child has a personal grievance, teach them to take the disagreement offline and work it out privately. Taking matters into their own hands with public shaming often creates a cycle of negativity.

  • Think before sharing: Before your child clicks forward on that photo or link they receive, remind them that it’s always best to think twice. Unverified content on offers and deals could turn out to be hoaxes or phishing scams, while humiliating content about others could spread negativity and hurt real people.

  • Don’t be a thief:​ Tell your child that if they wouldn’t steal something from another person in real life, they should apply the same principle online. Let’s respect the intellectual property rights of others by not stealing or damaging their digital work, identity or property. Your child should always ask for permission before using someone else’s content and remember to credit them after permission is given.

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How can you help others to embrace positive internet use?

  • Lead by example: A better internet starts with you. We are often influenced by the behaviour of our friends and loved ones. If you adopt positive internet etiquette, you can inspire your child to do the same.

  • Point out negative behaviour: You may want to tell your children that if they see their friends or family engaging in negative behaviour, do not be a bystander. Instead, tell them to point out the problem and suggest alternatives

  • Share resources: Educate your children to verify the reliability of any information they find online before they share it with friends and family. To learn more about building a positive internet for your children, visit betterinternet.sg for more resources.

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Contributed by:

Media Literacy Council

Original article has been edited by Family for Life Parenting